Sometimes what you need is not a plan. It is a person. Someone who sees you, sits with you, and reminds you that you have got this.
I have always noticed what people carry, even before they do. Over the years that noticing has met friends on a walk, family in the garden, strangers at the gym, and new faces over tea. I never chased it. It found me. From quiet nudges to hearty conversations, the gift kept opening. I have embraced it now. This is what I do best.